Wedding planning

Is not fun with him right now and my feelings are hurt. I feel defensive, annoyed, and hurt that this is so hard and heavy for him.

The other side: Even though he is heavy and tired, he wants to help and plan together. He just took time and energy to think, plan, and talk about wedding stuff together even though his heart isn’t really in it. He still put in effort and gave me great ideas and structure to my planning.

I’m just mad because I’m taking his help and effort as him saying that I’m not doing it right and he needs to show me what to do.